I find it incredably disappointing that the court has allowed custody to the perturnal grandparents. Just so the court can fully understand mine and my moms sistuation. Since the exsistances of my nephew ms balladares and her family has denied my nephew. Claiming my sister was nasty and untrust worthy. Forcing my sister to prove them wrong. She had got a DNA test clearly showing that rubidoux was the dad. Since elemantry I have been by my sister side. I have seen my nephew grow up from dipars to big boy underware. I have had more moments than his dad or his family. Not all by my sisters choice. Cause we; meaning my sister and I have lived together with andrew for about a year. I lived in the house and witness a few of many of the mental and physical abuse. Like making my sister clean and make him dinner while she was close to 9 months pregnat with my neice. Another time mr rubidoux one morning had kicked her in the stomach while she was a couple months pregnat with my neice.
But finally we moved out of there and moved back with my mother in Boron Ca. Me and my sister began to build our lifes up. We had a house and both were working. My mother babysitted. Since the beganing my family and the father family had a couple issues. Like his mother telling my sister to stay in the abusive relationship. Also letting the abuse take place in her home. Causing an arguement with my mom as she tried to help my sister. You see I feel like there is too much hurt and wrong from his side of the family for me to forgive.
And for mr rubidoux to take my sister life. Wither is by drunk driving he has claim over many years that he would hurt her. What is hurting the most is that my sister was an incredably mother the kids where her completly world. I remember on time my nephew was about a year and he had a pokey in his foot. It hurt my sister so bad to see my nephew in pain she cried as she tried to help him. When ever she could she would just snuggle up with the babies and lay there and tell them how much she loved them. When my sister had the resources and ride my nephew and neice never missed an appointment. She held deep love for the my nephew and neice. And one thing we would always talk about was how she couldn’t even think about the kids being sperated from our family. She wanted them to go into my care and be raise with the love they deserve.
My Concerns aren’t unreasonable. Ms balladares home I feel is un stable. From the visits we have had. She has allowed my nephew to run near the streets run to the neighbors with out a concerning care. She does have alcohol in her home. The husband to my knowlodge does have guns in the home. Her youngest son has a medical condition that he has said requires taking medical mruquana. Her sons do have drug dependentcy related arrest. And she has told us time over and over that there is a money restraint on her. And we have told her we would glady help.
I feel ms balladares can’t not raise my sister kids because look at how all her children have grown up to. Please don’t put my mephew and neice through that. We need them just as much as they need us. Please.
